GET THIS. SOME OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS HAVE NO SOLUTION.

 That’s right. No matter how many fights you get into, or how many different ways you find of saying the same thing, you and your partner will not make it better. That thing you’ve fought about from the beginning of time? It will probably stick around until the end of time. It will stay bad, painful, annoying, or ridiculous, literally forever.

According to research, most of our relationship problems, 69% of them in fact, are unsolvable.

Why? Because, says relationship researcher John Gottman, they are based on deeply ingrained differences in personalities and needs. i.e.Olivia Pope herself couldn’t fix them.

So, how do you know if you're dealing with a perpetual problem?